Why do good girls usually despise nasty girls?
Why_so_serious? asked:
Have you personally ever met a nasty girl whom you despised? What made you perceive her to be that way?
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August 26th, 2009 at 2:29 pm
It’s all about jealousy.
August 27th, 2009 at 11:13 am
Because they the mean girls are usually nasty and ride!!!
August 30th, 2009 at 7:53 pm
Duh, because they have all the boys following them around all the time.
Yes, despised her all night long for never giving me a chance to get any sleep.
August 31st, 2009 at 2:59 pm
Kinda goes both ways, I know nasty girls who dislike good girls. It’s all matter of opinion and jealousy for the most part. I think every female, whether they admit it or not has a jealousy issue with someone regardless of how good or nasty you are. That’s just females for you…never satisfied!
August 31st, 2009 at 9:14 pm
I think that people don’t always “despise” people unlike them, but they are afraid of them. We are afraid of what we don’t understand.
If we were to put what you call a “nasty girl” in a room with a “good girl” for several ‘hang out/conversations”, we would probably be surprised at the outcome. There is a very good chance that they would genuinely like one another. There would be differences, but they would understand these differences a little better.
Unfortunately, we rarely have opportunities to really get to know those who are different from us. We hang out with people like us and dislike the groups that are different from us.
Just think, countries have been bombed killing thousands of innocent people, women and children, just because they are different.
When a girl uses a lot of profanity, lots of make up, tight clothes…showing a lot of skin, pierced everything, is rude, crude and even mean…she might be thought of as nasty and maybe despised by some.
A “good girl” doesn’t overdo the make up, wears clothes that fit nicely…not too tight…may have pierced ears, is polite, conservative and can also be mean….she is thought of as a nice girl, but despised by some.
It is best if we get to know a person before judging them from their appearance.
September 4th, 2009 at 6:56 am
What you are talking about is known in psychology classes as the madonna-whore complex. In other words, men artificially divide women into two categories: “good girls” (the nice little goody two-shoes virgin on her wedding night who is okay to bring home to mother) and “bad girls” (the, um, experienced woman whom you do not bring home to mother). And the entire purpose of this madonna-whore complex is that it is a tool of the system of patriarchy (a system of rule characterized by the social supremacy of males) to help “divide and conquer” the oppressed females. But for many (though certainly not all) women, there is a very powerful urge to remain in the “nice girl” category, so as to avoid whatever it is that might be the dire consequences of defying the patriarchy. Thus, instead of uniting as women to throw off their chains, women often have this unfortunate tendency to fight amongst themselves. Another obvious reason why many of the “nice girls” dislike the “bad girls” is, quite simply, that the “bad girls” give the husbands and boyfriends of these “nice girls” the opportunity to stray.
September 4th, 2009 at 2:27 pm
I’ve met a nasty girl before… and I didn’t like her because she was mean to anyone and everyone. I didn’t dislike her because of jealousy, and I didn’t dislike her for any other reason.
September 4th, 2009 at 5:55 pm
…because they’re nasty. Not much more to it.
September 6th, 2009 at 6:41 am
social conditioning. women are conditioned to **** other women based on a societally constructed concept of attractiveness and female sexuality.
September 7th, 2009 at 7:58 am
cause the bad girls give all girls a bad reputation. they sleep around, smoke and drink, so men assume that all girls are like that, when the bad girls are actually in the minority. good girls are the norm, and they have a much happier and more productive life than girls that are bad.
bad girls arent bad casue they like it, they are like that, cause they realized that being that way is the only way they can get attention from boys, so they wrongly get ‘love’ and attention from boys by being easy.
ps. a note to bad girls.
it never works out the way you expect or want it too. men use you, and make you feel worse. keep it in your pants.
September 7th, 2009 at 9:26 am
nasty girls are just girls that like having sex, they KNOW they like it, and arent afraid to DO it….society has decided that these girls are “sluts”, and they are bad. “good” girls, most of them anyway, want to be able to let loose, to give into their own carnal desires, but cant, because of society, and the centuries of brainwashing, making them believe they will be somehow less of a woman, that they will be worthless as a desirable woman….strange how it is acceptable for men to go and get as much as we can, and WE arent looked down on?
September 9th, 2009 at 5:57 pm
What is your definition of “nasty”? How are defining “good”girls?. Your question is requesting an answer that is a value judgment, and as such, cannot be answered accurately.
September 12th, 2009 at 11:45 pm
yes because she was a coward and a bully
September 13th, 2009 at 7:43 am
Because they are “nasty” girls.