Why are girls so nasty to each other?
Bret “Hussein” M asked:
My daughter put a question on here and everyone was flat mean,so I decided to see what they said to the other girls,and many of you are just downright mean.I mean if someones ugly you dont say “hey your ugly”you say something like”you are exotic looking”or some other lie.How does it benefit you to make someone feel bad?Now I am not on here to stick up for my kid,she does a fine job of that on her own,I just want to understand why girls treat each other like that.Someone wanna explain?

girls feel powerful when theyre puttin other people down.when they critisize someone they think it makes them better and look “cool”.thats how bitches are these days
If someone asks me for my “honest” opinion, I’m gonna give it to them.
…Is that a difficult concept to comprehend?
it’s always worse over the internet
girls are vicious though, but you have to be in this dog eat dog world or you’re gonna get ran over
I truly don’t feel that girls are ugly to each other purposefully all the time. I think we are almost “hard-wired” that way. It’s just a jealously thing half the time. All girls want to be better than other girls as some form of competition. I see that more clearly now that I’m 22 going on 23. I am a married mom of 2 with tremendous life experience in many aspects. It may not be something that girls necessarily “grow out of” but rather gain more of a control over as they mature. It’s just the way most of us are “built”. I hope this helps. Best of luck and great job defending your child. I would do the same! (I have a 4-year-old daughter and a 3-month-old son.)
Umm I get called exotic looking all the time so now I guess that means I’m ugly gee thanks!!! I think HONESTY no matter how much it hurts is better that LYING. I am greek btw so I have “exotic features” I guess. Exotic shouldn’t be a bad thing, it means a different beauty than blond and blue eyes. I am usually very honest but in a nice way and when I see someone who I honestly think is ugly with no hope(which i have yet to see) I don’t answer.
Different reasons. I guess if they were doing it to her online it was probably so they could have a laugh and feel good about themselves, though in reality it just makes them cowardly two face brats.
When there are a group of girls it’s usually because of attention issues. Popularity etc, so they put each other down and are mean and degrading to make the other look bad and themselves look better.
Then there is the holier than though attitude, so I can treat you whatever way I want because I’m God’s gift.
This is why I have mostly male friends. Way too much drama in the world of females. Petty too.
many girls refer to another girl who is pretty or has a bit of good friends as ***** even tho they might not even be the slightest bit of a tart, but its becuase they feel threatend in some way, at my school if you dont look or dress a certain way they will isolate alot of people against you and they will start calling you **** or a skank and it has quite a bit of emotional impact on one.
girls have nothing better to do with their time… sad, i know. girls are pathetic, hormonal, and always want to be the best. (heck, i am one!… an old one at that) not much anyone can do.
go picck up the book ‘odd girl out’ might help you out in understand girls.
Hey, is your daughter the 11 year old girl that posted a picture of herself a few hours ago or so?
Well I’m going to write this because of the small chance it actually is her… I saw 2 replies that where short and rude, and wanted to reply, but the question was deleted after I wrote what I had to say. So to the girl that posted her picture earlier(If this her or not) you look like you just hit your teens, and it is very natural to be wondering if you are pretty or not, you are cute, and now coming into the time where your body will change. Your body has much change to do(you haven’t even gotten all of your teeth yet), but I can assure you that you will be as pretty in a few years as you are cute today.
I was sad I didn’t get to tell the young girl this today, so if this is not her, then I hope she somehow reeds it.
Have a nice day
Yes I think girls on here are pretty judgemental. Most think everyone is ugly. But knowing that. Why would people put their picture up for rating? Maybe you should just tell your daugther to not ask questions she doesn’t want answer to. If she was confident why would an opinion of a bunch of people on the internet matter to her anyway.
Idk the answer to this question.
I’m not mean,
The girls probably feel power.
i think theres a coupple reasons why a ***** would be ”nasty” to another.
first, she could just be a straight up biotch. these days, especially in america. its becomming more evident that people are losing their touch of consideration, manners, and politeness. theres not really much we can do with those people now. try to correct them, or ignore them.
just be happy you learned to be more human, and dont look like the *******.
second, some people (especially same genders) treat other people the way they can handle being treated.
its like, youre a chick, im a *****. no need to be fake to your face about what i have to say, or have to sugar coat and baby you with it.
men do it all the time with eachother. its just human nature to be challenging and competitive.
also, on the internet people tend to forget that the other person around the world is an actual person with feelings too. after all, they are strangers. noone really cares about them.
maybe people do want to give their “honest opinion” but, it might come out a little more blunt than in real life.
… its alot easier to tell someone theyre ugly, especially if you dont even have to look in their eyes and say it.
But really, theres no excuse, weather youre a bich, competitive, or “honest” were humans, and should be more considerate of one another. like you said… it dosent benefit you, or the other person. so why do it.
bottom line, BE NICE, ITS NICE TO BE NICE!!!!
Because they like to ***** and have such boring little lives that they feel the need to put everyone else down- well done to your daughter as half of them on here don’t even ask questions they are too scared to, they only answer them and be nasty. Tell your daughter to ignore them as they are the losers.
If someone can’t handle honest opinions, they shouldn’t shouldn’t be asking for them.
If someone asks me for the truth, I give it to them with no sugar coating.
depends who they are- most are sluts, but i hardly ever fight, me and my best friend havent had a fight in 4 YEARS! and if we even try to start and argument, we both say sryy and hug and everythings back to normal…..most girls on here- all they think about is fashion, but theres more to life than that. I NEVER put on ANY make-up in my WHOLE life, im glad my mom taught me not to. Im a christian and Jesus loves me just the way I am…..God bless! =]