what will you do in serious situation like this? plz read and answer?
what to say when talking nasty
There is a lady at work who I used to be friendly with her and she is around 45 and I used to ask her about her experience.
I found her not very bright or intelligent but her manager is her bf so he is helping her. I’m new in this department and she sits next to me so in lunch time she told me nasty things about everyone including the head of the department. At that point I realized if she is talking nasty about them I’m sure she will talk about me.
Another colleague came to me yesterday her name is pamela. And she looked at me very angry and said you r talking behind me and u said blah blah shit about me.
I looked at michelle and didn’t say a word. Later I asked michelle excuse me why the fuck did u say to her I’m talking about her when it is u who is talking about her. Michelle said this pamela is shit and don’t believe her. I see pamela and michelle are close friends laughing and talking. However, michelle talks extreme nasty about her.
I’m extremely shocked she might go and talk to even senior mgmt and tell them I talk nasty about them when it is she who did it. I’m only new nearly couple of months and I have 2 degrees so may be she is jealous but I seriously need to stop this shit. How can you if u were in my place tackle the issue? And after that happened I tried to distance myself from her but she is coming near me and talks nasty about ppl again. What can I do?
