Talk Nasty!

Ok well last night for the first time me and my boyfriend, text ( dirty, sexy ). I know he had fun lol, you could so tell. I had fun too but i don’t want our relationship to only be about sex, because to be honest we have done many things ( not sex, but close ) but we don’t hang out that much, we do but not 50% of our individual lives, not enough at all really. I know he wants sex but im just not ready, i really like him, and i want our relationship to be serious and actually last. I want it to be not just sex. I know often now he is gonna try and have phone sex with me, i don’t mind doing it sometimes ( like once a month, maybe a little more ). I believe if we do it any more often, when we are in person we wont have any " dirty" things to say to each other or talk about, plus our relationship will get very boring very fast.
How do i tell him that i don’t want to do it all the time, only sometimes, with out sounding like such a "girl", and turing him off me. I am " dirty" and i do like to have " fun" i just want to be sensible for once and hold off. Please help me, thanks xx

Talk Nasty!

so me and my gf have been going out for 5 months now, we know everything about each other, we love each other very much, we french kissed each other b4 and we had sex with each other(btw we both are 16 years old)…so me and my gf can talk about anything when we text each other but when we get on the phone we go completely blank…i try to talk freaky to her over the phone but i can’t because either my mom and brother are up and i don’t want them to hear me or her mother other grandmother be up…we was about to have phone sex with each other last night but her mother and my brother was up so we couldn’t(i want to hear her moan because she couldn’t do when we had sex because she didn’t want anybody to hear her and my brother kept walking in on us)…so my ? to u guys is do you have anything that me and my gf can talk about or do over the phone that is still freaky/nasty that we will like to do and what do you guys talk about when you guys are talking to the person you love over the phone at night or in the morning

btw we both know that we are to young to have sex with each other, but we both know the consequences behind having sex and it just happened at the heat of the moment and we couldn’t help ourselves because we both was horny that day when it happened

No mean or stupid responses or you will get a thumbs down or even reported
o and one more thing she likes video games, basketball, football,and some anime just like me but we dont like talking about that when we are on the phone and she isn’t like a girly girl, she will dress like a girl but she doens’t gossip like most girls do

Talk Nasty!

Ok I love my boyfriend dearly. I am almost 16 and sometimes I am just too damn horny. I have a hard time controlling myself. Sometimes I have phone sex to make me feel better. But lately it been really bad. I just cant keep my mouth shut and I just talk so dirty. And yes my boyfriend loves it… I want to stay a virgin because I know the risk of teenage pregnancy and illnesses. I need to control myself so I don’t get myself into a situation. We’ve talked about sex but I also told him im not ready even though I sound like I am when I get down and dirty. I want this relationship to last w/ or w/out sex. We love each other very much and sex mite make us stronger… I need your opinions and advice. What can I talk about instead?

Talk Nasty!

He talks dirty to me and I love to hear it! Lately he has been out of town and I sent him some sexy text messages… (my first phone sex) he is working, but I thought men like to dirty talk during the day or should I waited untill he was about to come home? Please help me what you think!

Talk Nasty!

My bf likes to dirty talk or do the whole phone sex thing since I’m away at school….and I love to get kinky, whatever, during sex but the whole verbal aspect of it all has really got me tongue tied.

1. I can’t even tell when he’s doing it….lol
EX. he’s asked me a couple times if he’s hurt me….I, stupidly, thought he was expressing concern! lol…..oops….so I was like "no!!! u dont hurt me, dont worry" …..FINALLY (after his many failed attempts) he just answered his own question, sort of, by following up the question with "you just cant take it, it hurts u so bad, doesnt it?" hahah I got it after that and played along as if i knew what he was doing the whole time….I just wish I wasn’t so slow at this! Sometimes he does it on the phone, when we’re not even talking sexually to initiate sex-talk and I get SO confused.

3. I have some pretty dirty thoughts of my own….verbalizing them makes me feel a bit akward….
I do eventually "let go" (esp. if its over the phone) and start saying things…but then he might say "really?" and I’m thinking (oh jeez, is this a good "really?" or a WTF "really?"….) and I get all screwed up again….not comfortable….he likes doing lots of crazy stuff, which makes me feel better about verbalizing crazy ideas, but I don’t exactly know his personal limits…and i asked him about his limitations and it was pointless….i know he’s "nasty" but what if I prove to be "nastier"? like, to the point where it seems excessive and he gets turned off?

3. DO WE REALLY HAVE TO TALK ABOUT IT?!?!? i get sooooo turned off when we do…..it makes it better the next time we do have sex tho bc sometimes we do learn a little bit about what the other person wants, but overall, I really just dread those conversations…and when they’re in person/during sex?? I dry up like the sahara…sex is amazing bc its fun…once the talking starts, it just becomes too much of a mental process….

4. HE turnes me off when he does it!
I mean, when he talks like that, even if the image of what he’s saying is awesome, he reminds me of Ron Jeremy from the movie Boondock Saints when he’s in the arcade jerking off…..lol…..and once that image comes into play, all sexy thoughts go out the window

WHAT DO I DO?!!?

Any tips? I WANT to be able to get over this all and join in on the dirty talk…..but seriously….how?