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what to say when talking nasty

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this is so complex and sad.basically 4 months ago i had no choice but to totally cut ties with my mother and my 2 half sisters due to mental bullying for a long time from the 3 of them and also incidents of child abuse(me)which my mom turned a blind eye to when i told her(it was 1 of my stepdads)there was even 1 incident where my mom stood and watched with my ex-stepdad being abusive but i confronted it with her,she denied she was there,but she didnt deny it happened.there has been so many things happen,unfortunate incidents ie-i was r*p*d and when i told my mom she told me it was MY fault,i learned never to confide in her after that so we drifted.im not sure why but im the outcast of the family.hence the bullying. anyways i only had the courage to send a letter to sever ties with them,the bullying was making me really ill and so anxious and the icing on the cake was i heard an accidental call,my mom left her mobile in her house while she went out to shops with 1 of my sisters,anywyas the phone call was to my mums mobile i picked it up as it was my sister my mum was with,i thought they forgot something or whatever-no it wasnt.i couldnt belive what i was hearing.they were talking about me saying really nasty things.1 was"did you see L****y its like shes never had a wash"of course my mother agreed and added nasty things to it(petty)(unrepeatable)so i hung up.(i hadnt washed my hair in 3 days)i always got the blame for everything and anything is always twisted to make it my fault and when they came back,i was crying and angry and they blamed the call on me saying"well we cant say that to your face cos you just push us away"so all i got was the phone call was my fault and i was in the wrong(im used to that now)its all petty and the list could go on and on but i have 2 kids my girl is 8 and my son is 3(my daughter is grandmas favourite and its well known my son is outcast and son feels this)so after i sent the letter to my mum and sisters and i got a nasty phone message from my mum(cheap-shots used to it anywyas)and a very slanderous evil email from 1 of my sisters.(i expected that) all i wanted was for me to be left alone to get on with my life(the letter i sent them to cut all ties was not a nasty letter i stated that no matter what i would always love them,told them why i cut ties i put everything down apart from my childhood.i didnt stop them from seeing my 2 kids as its not their fault,so they see them every friday.but without fail there is always a drama that i get to know about,basically in a petty way my family are now trying to get to me through my 8 year old daughter!they make remarks to her questioning my ability as a fit mother(they perceive me to be an unfit mom,im definitely not,im bipolar,ive had problems in the past,ive been stable on my meds for a very long time now,i have professionals to back me up which they had to couple of months back to my mom.
i find it so unhealthy and unfair that my lil girl is stuck in the middle here and shes told me shes heard things about me in a not so nice way(basically they are talking nasty about me in front of my kids)and now all of a sudden my family have a new best friend-my ex(kids dad whom we dont speak as he refused to provide child support,goes for a sleep when he had the kids and left them to fend for themselves and still did it after a telling off from social services and other things thats too long to write here)and my ex and my kids were invited to spend xmas dinner with the family to which my ex is going but of course i want to spend xmas with my kids and they want to spend it with me.so the kids are having a 2nd xmas at my moms on boxing day with their dad also(hes supervised when he sees them)as everyone will be fresh and a new day for all and the kids to enjoy their gifts.but my family are cleverly manipulating my daughter to the point where i feel im losing a bit of her every week and its breaking my heart and i feel sorry for my son cos he gets shoved to the side and is constantly picked on(my mom said all men should be shot at birth yet she always put men first before her own flesh and blood,sad but true.i have never been listened to which im used to but i need to make a stand for my kids sake.i cannot let them brainwash my daughter and for them to eventually turn her against me(their behaviour makes me think that)my sons only 3 so is too young to understand and im so distressed by it all,its not healthy for the kids or me,i feel that cutting ties with them was a waste of time as its getting carried on through my daughter poor soul,i dont know how to deal with this.my friends are very supportive(they know what my family are like)and they say they are wanting me to break./crack up and i hate to say it but its working:( now i couldnt care why im an outcast,and i couldnt care that theyre evil towards me(im used to it) but this is now effecting my kids but if i stopped access im actually scared to think what they would do/say im also waiting to he

talking nasty tips

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OKAY, so to begin, I am
FILIPINO AND BLACK with a bit chinese and native american.

NOW, my normal hair texture (before i relaxed it)
was REALLLY long, almost past my back.
It was also pretty curly. Here let me give you an example:

ERR never mind, I cant find anyones hair that looks
exactly like it.

All I can say is that it was very THICK, LONG, and CURLY (some people might call it wavy/curly though).

So one day, I heard people talking about relaxers and I asked my mom,"What is a relaxer?" or maybe it was my sister. They told me what it was and I was really interested. PEOPLE ARE NEVER HAPPY WITH WHAT THEY ALREADY HAVE.

Okay, so it makes hair straight….

So I asked them… should I relax my hair?
They said SUREEE and I didn’t think it would be
a big deal because it would grow out, right?
Plus, I was sick of dealing with my thick hair and having to brush it out EVERY SINGLE DAY. but now with this ugly hair that I have I would love it any day.

SO, my Filipino mom relaxed it in the bathroom during the day.
(I WAS 13)

I washed it off and everything but when I looked in the mirror, it looked the same. That was until it dried. It wasn’t as puffy and curly. it was practically WAVY and an inch longer. SOOOO i was happy with it. It wasn’t that big of a difference.

THEN, I decided to relax it again a few months later because my hair was growing out EXTREMELY fast (that’s just how it grows). My sister was like," IF IT LOOKED THAT NICE WHEN YOU FIRST RELAXED IT, IMAGINE HOW IT WOULD LOOK LIKE IF YOU DID IT AGAIN!"

and so I was convinced. (Me now being a year older).

I did it and it came out almost STRAIGHt.
but still wavy.
i HATED IT.
I HATE MY HAIR.
I HATE HOW UGLY IT IS.

It’s been so damaged because of only the 2 TIMES
i had relaxed it in a lifetime.

Now, it is SOOOO curly, VERY short and barely past my back like it used to be, 5 DIFFERENT TEXTURES, DRY AND DISGUSTING TO TOUCH.

and let me tell you, this is from only relaxing 2 times out of my whole life.

when i relaxed it the second time, everything was even. it was all wavy/straight. as it began to grow out, i realized it didn’t look the same as before I relaxed it. it was ultra curly and tight and very dry.

my baby hairs haven’t grown out and it’s been almost a year since I first relaxed it.

My hair used to grow VERY fast. Almost 3-4 inches in ONE MONTH.

Now it takes more than 6 months just to grow out a few baby hairs that are 4 inches long.

I am completely disgusted.
People are never happy with what they have.

Now I look back at my pictures of when
I was a year younger before I ever relaxed my hair and
I am so angry.

I feel ugly. Everyday I have to touch this hair where its frizzy at the top and wavy/straight/curly at the middle and bottom. I put it in a bun and it still looks HORRID.

It wont even grow out and its been more than 6 months now.
All thats grown out is about 3 inches.

I need some ideas of what I should do with my hair.
Do you think that it will ever go back to how long and curly/wavy it used to be? or do you think it will stay this dry and nasty even after all of it grows out?

PLEASE give me some ideas.

Should I just shave my head and start of new?
I dont think I would look good bald because everyone
says that if I was, I would look like a boy.

Im just a kid and it’s not like I have a completely mature face.
So any professionals out there who have any comments/tips please post a comment and give me some ideas.

Thanks for your help all.

talking nasty tips

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I am a 6’0 male and 168 lbs. I have nasty, disgusting stretch marks on my lower belly, inside thighs (near my pelvic region),, and just below my armpits. I also have body fat in the worst places (ie stomach thighs upper chest). My mom says its my baby fat but I’m pretty sure I’ve advanced far enough into puberty to lose all that. I worried when i remembered that some kids were becoming overweight at around the age of 3, DISGUSTING!!!! I just need tips and facts for eating healthy (because i know i must do that first) and losing the stretch marks and unwanted fat. If you could also provide me with websites that will aid me in my goals that would be lovely. The person who best elaborates and feels to me they know what there talking about will get the best answer. So please, anybody, help.

nasty talk over the phone

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so me and my gf have been going out for 5 months now, we know everything about each other, we love each other very much, we french kissed each other b4 and we had sex with each other(btw we both are 16 years old)…so me and my gf can talk about anything when we text each other but when we get on the phone we go completely blank…i try to talk freaky to her over the phone but i can’t because either my mom and brother are up and i don’t want them to hear me or her mother other grandmother be up…we was about to have phone sex with each other last night but her mother and my brother was up so we couldn’t(i want to hear her moan because she couldn’t do when we had sex because she didn’t want anybody to hear her and my brother kept walking in on us)…so my ? to u guys is do you have anything that me and my gf can talk about or do over the phone that is still freaky/nasty that we will like to do and what do you guys talk about when you guys are talking to the person you love over the phone at night or in the morning

btw we both know that we are to young to have sex with each other, but we both know the consequences behind having sex and it just happened at the heat of the moment and we couldn’t help ourselves because we both was horny that day when it happened

No mean or stupid responses or you will get a thumbs down or even reported
o and one more thing she likes video games, basketball, football,and some anime just like me but we dont like talking about that when we are on the phone and she isn’t like a girly girl, she will dress like a girl but she doens’t gossip like most girls do

nasty girl talk

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so its summer. and i usually talk with my boyfriend on the phone for hours. we usually stop anywhere from 1- 5 in the morning. we don’t talk nasty or anything like that, just about life, friends, our future, our memories & stuff like that. also i have AT&T so i have unlimited minutes after 9 every night. and i always sleep in until around 12 the next morning. but today my mom checked our account online n she saw my calls. she got really paranoid about it and disconnected my phone. im not talking to her and i think shes over reacting since she knows my phone is like my everything. now i cant text or call or anything ! is she right ? they didn’t even know about it cuz its not like they could hear me. what can i do ? should i even be mad at her ?
and also, she knows who it is that i talk to. she doesnt care that i hangout with him so thats why i find it ridiculous that i cant talk on the phone with him ?

what to say when talking nasty

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i was 15 i am now 24, he felt on my private area with his fingers and kissed me, i woke up an pushed him away and i hid under my sheets, times before that he would talk nasty to me if am ready to become a women, that am sexy, also how wwould i kiss a man etc. anyhow back to that bad nite, i woke up feeling bad wondering what should i do, i went to my mom and i cryed to her, she didn’t do nothing, she said let’s not bring this up ever again let’s forget it. so i did for her. fast forward to now. i love my mom dearly no matter what , i need her and love her, i am married to a great man 3 kids and all, i hate that she still puts this man in my face making me wish him happy fathers day,birthdays etc. she tells my kids to call him grandpa all that, well i am still dealing with this i want closure now but am so scared to i want to comfront them but am serious to say that i don’t wanna lose my mom i love her. i want to tell her why!! should i leave well enough alone. or lose my mom

ludacris curly hair

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I know my mom is Spanish with some Irish but I’m pretty sure she has other things in her. and I know my dad is 100% Turkish but he looks Part black like African because my grandma looks really dark like Darker than ludacris(the rappers color) and my dad has really curly black hair and darkk skin and he just looks more than biracial everyone thinks his black.. and he claims his full Turkish when most Turks look european like Italian so he must be mixed with something but he don’t no what…I know a lot of Turkish Cypriots are mixed with Egyptian or Morrocan.

but yea im really confused about my race… would a DNA test see all my races?
yea the pic is of me and my lil brother <3