Stop Bullying!

I’m 22 and I feel awkward about this. I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now and I feel like I need to learn these things. Learn about sex, just in case.

The thing is, he’s really… innocent. He’s always been like that, even when he was in high school. I adore that about him. He was raised in a super Christian household and he was taught to respect girls. He doesn’t curse, drink alcohol, or smoke. He’s a saint, I swear. And I feel like he sees me as innocent too. I don’t want to lose that. I don’t want to talk dirty to him.

So how would I turn him on without being dirty/naughty/slutty/etc? If couples really talk to each other while they’re making love, what the heck do you say?!
I know what men, in general want. The problem is my man is not typical in that sense. He’s just as shy as I am.

Note: We’ve made out, give each other massages, but it has never gone further.