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I seriously need help on how to start a dirty conversation through texting.?
how to talk dirty to your boyfriend
Mkay so my boyfriend and i like to talk dirty to each other alot, but the thing is he always has me start the conversations but i have no clue what to say to him!! And no i don’t want to say anything like im really horny or whatever and i DONT want any responses saying "tell him anything you want to do with him" or "Tell him whatever comes to your mind or however you feel" I want actual answers on what to say to him.
Talking dirty in all its glory?
talking nasty tips
My bf likes to dirty talk or do the whole phone sex thing since I’m away at school….and I love to get kinky, whatever, during sex but the whole verbal aspect of it all has really got me tongue tied.
1. I can’t even tell when he’s doing it….lol
EX. he’s asked me a couple times if he’s hurt me….I, stupidly, thought he was expressing concern! lol…..oops….so I was like "no!!! u dont hurt me, dont worry" …..FINALLY (after his many failed attempts) he just answered his own question, sort of, by following up the question with "you just cant take it, it hurts u so bad, doesnt it?" hahah I got it after that and played along as if i knew what he was doing the whole time….I just wish I wasn’t so slow at this! Sometimes he does it on the phone, when we’re not even talking sexually to initiate sex-talk and I get SO confused.
3. I have some pretty dirty thoughts of my own….verbalizing them makes me feel a bit akward….
I do eventually "let go" (esp. if its over the phone) and start saying things…but then he might say "really?" and I’m thinking (oh jeez, is this a good "really?" or a WTF "really?"….) and I get all screwed up again….not comfortable….he likes doing lots of crazy stuff, which makes me feel better about verbalizing crazy ideas, but I don’t exactly know his personal limits…and i asked him about his limitations and it was pointless….i know he’s "nasty" but what if I prove to be "nastier"? like, to the point where it seems excessive and he gets turned off?
3. DO WE REALLY HAVE TO TALK ABOUT IT?!?!? i get sooooo turned off when we do…..it makes it better the next time we do have sex tho bc sometimes we do learn a little bit about what the other person wants, but overall, I really just dread those conversations…and when they’re in person/during sex?? I dry up like the sahara…sex is amazing bc its fun…once the talking starts, it just becomes too much of a mental process….
4. HE turnes me off when he does it!
I mean, when he talks like that, even if the image of what he’s saying is awesome, he reminds me of Ron Jeremy from the movie Boondock Saints when he’s in the arcade jerking off…..lol…..and once that image comes into play, all sexy thoughts go out the window
WHAT DO I DO?!!?
Any tips? I WANT to be able to get over this all and join in on the dirty talk…..but seriously….how?
Is it considered cheating if your husband is talking to over 100 women online?
how to talk dirty to your husband
My husband has been spending alot of time on the computer, so I went into his yahoo messenger one day, and discovered he has almost 200 women on his list. I changed his preferences so it would save all his conversations. Over the last 2 months, he has had over 3000 conversations or attempts at conversations. He is very explicit and dirty in what he wants, and alot of these women are more than happy to oblige. He is viewing them on their cams, and exchanging photos. He has one certain woman that he talks to every day, and they tell each other how much they love one another, and alot of the times, he’s telling these women that he is single, when he is married with a 4 yr. old son, and another child on the way. Is this cheating? What should I do about it? I can hardly stand to look at him at this point, let alone have him touch me, and he doesn’t know why. Should I confront him?
How do i divert my attention from that nasty girl?
nasty girl talk
Now let me tell u all my story. I m a 7th grader. I m a girl. I m in a new school and i m having difficulties in making friends. Don’t tell me to be talkative or go in conversations or talk to the girls. I have tried all of it and its of no use to me! Actually, there is also 1 other new student in our class. She er..well is making lots of friends day by day. And the number is increasing even more! Well i m not jealous but when i walk in the corridors to my class and and i hear everyone talking abt nothing but Caren. (The other new girl) CAREN, CAREN CAREN…whats so good abt her?! ! No one talks with me, i repeat NO ONE! Its just like i m invisible or something. Its not jeolousy taking over. Well…um i just call it complex. What can i do to remove that complex from my mind?!
