My daughter is upset because this girl wrote something nasty and mean on her myspace?

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Is there something legal I can do about it?

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30 Responses to “My daughter is upset because this girl wrote something nasty and mean on her myspace?”

  • yeah its harassment. cyber bullying is just as bad as any other kind of bullying. if it was really nasty and if you think it should be taken up with something higher then go for it. don’t let your daughter be cyber bullied over myspace!

  • No its just words…and better yet its myspace

  • Nope. Tell her to just delete it.

  • Haha nope! That’s the beauty of MySpace, Facebook… all those stalker blogs.

  • yes you can actually have your attorney write i letter to myspace and they will take it off. don’t complain yourself because they wont do anythnig unless you threaten with legal action.

  • their just kids you should make a fake myspace acting like a boy from her school and have fun lol

  • Yeah, and I am sure her friends will find it cool that her mom had her back on this one.

  • DMike:

    have ur daughter whoop her ass

  • Unless it threatens her in some way, I don’t think there’s much you can do besides delete the message and ignore this girl.

  • tell them to f*ck off
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  • tess:

    i don’t think there’s anything legal you can do, but you should try. i know you can report stuff to the myspace people.

  • make her delete her myspace..
    if she’s under 16 she shouldn’t have one anyways.
    and if she is of age, she’ll get over it.
    it’s teenage drama.
    let it go.

  • no. when you have a myspace you should expect a few messages like that. unless it was threatening her you probably wouldn’t be able to

  • id contact the girls mother and tell her what going on then she might take the privilege of her going on myspace again.

    and i dont think that u can do anything legal

    Luck

  • i don’t think there is anything legal you can do about it but just tell her what goes around comes around, and that the girl who wrote this mean thing will most likely get hurt the same way.

  • it depends on what the girl said about her then yes you could report it

  • ask your daughter if she wants you to do something about it because people sometimes dont need help like that they can handle it on there own.

  • depends on what she wrote and how old she is…..down here in louisiana..if u write anything like “u should die, i **** you” then u can be arrested…..there are things u can do…..if still in school…print what she wrote out and take it to the principal and tell them …and they will contact the parents!!

  • gee:

    have her set her myspace to private and not accept that girl as a friend. Also keep copies, I know my kids principle sometimes deals with that stuff or at least the councilor might too?

  • DonN:

    No. You might try and they could be blocked from the site. It’s better off doing nothing though, making it big won’t do anything better.

  • She should make her myspace account private.

    I did something years ago writing about someone at a public park.

    I am truly sorry for doing it.

  • it was not sent to her, so it is not considered cyber bullying. its freedom of speech. as long as she does not involve the girl or send her anything, she’s just talking about someone. she’s just going to have to deal with it.

  • you could report it to myspace, also tell the school if they go to the same shcool

  • no!!!
    myspace is just away that people from school can talk to u and the girl probably is really mad at her and u seen it it nothiong that wouldnt happen at school

  • Falcky:

    Depends. What exactly did she say?
    Discrimination and such things could be reported, because offending someone even in words, is in that case illegal.
    However, if it’s just mean stuff, I’d either talk to the parents’ girl, or to the school professor, so that they make sure this doesn’t repeat… if of course your daughter knows the girl.
    If it was just a random girl, then the best thing you can do is talk with your daughter, explain her that there are such people in life, and just advise her to put that individual in the ignore list. Also, I’m not sure about that since I don’t have a myspace, but I’m guessing they must have some report system… that girl could receive a warning from myspace itself.

  • i dont think so, i mean, you can always write back on their myspace wall. but, if shes gonna get upset at a post ( i obviously dont know what it was about. i mean i might too) then she my not be mature enough to have a page. but then again, i dont really know the situation or how old your daughter is.
    But i will say this, myspace is no place for a younger girl. at least what it is today. i would suggest to her to get a facebook page instead. less hackers, more privacy, and a better enviornment for making friends over the internet. i hope she feels better!

  • Yes, if you know her then you cansue her parents, for slander. get a lawyer.
    I was going to suggest you let her know that 5% of people are ignorant and evil, but they are always in the minority. You will need to get a program from tucows, or some other freeware company online, and saved the website page. don’t let anybody know or they will erase it. Yeah slander is a biggie, and you can crush them forever for that.

  • You could monitor her myspace. Words are just that. Unless she is being threatened with harm……there really isn’t anything that can be done. If she is being threatened and bullied, you can contact your local police. You could also contact a lawyer and sue the other person for slander if what she is saying isn’t true. I would copy the pages and keep an eye on everything. Copy everything the bully says and if it comes down to it, you have all the proof.
    Besides, if it was just a comment that the other person wrote, that can be deleted by you or your daughter and that person can be blocked so they don’t say anything else. Fact is this: The internet can be a mean place. Myspace isn’t a place for young people. There are nasty people on there that will say whatever they want cause they are “hidden” behind a computer screen.

  • u need to consult a lawyer on whether u can bring a civil law suit against the girl for defamation. But the question is how long can u keep bring lawsuits against ppl who talk bad about your daughter esp when she go out to society. Perhaps u should encourage and talk to ur daughter bcos this world is alot of crictisms and too little of praise.

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